It is fairly common to dream of ants. Ants may signify that there is something in your life that is bugging you.

When your frequency is vibrating in concert with another frequency, it will only be a matter of time before you meet someone.
The Law of Attraction will be at work. At this point, you should follow your hunches.
If you have the urge to do something on a different schedule than usual, then do it. This may be how you find your mate.